Love big, with no regrets

It’s pretty safe to say that we’ve all been hurt by someone! Whether it was a family member or your BFF, being offended/hurt is inevitable because we are human! But I want to encourage you, to love anyways! There’s an amazing song by Martina Mcbride that says, “You can love someone with all your heart for all the right reasons
in a moment they can choose to walk away love ’em anyway”!!!! When you let anger win, you are allowing yourself to lose. For a good part of my life I’ve had a “forget you” attitude and all it got me was low quality relationships, because people don’t want negative energy in their circle. If I could have a redo in life, I would 1,000% take the opportunity because who I allowed myself to be then, and the person I’m trying to be now is flat out hard! The younger me could build great friendships/bonds, but she could also sever one in a flash! Being quick to anger and dismissing apologies has not worked well! And at the age of 41 I’m learning that allowing myself to love, regardless of what happens in the future, will help me to have zero regrets! But what about THAT person?! Well, I have a few of those in my life! I have relationships that might not ever be put back together, and I can only move forward from here. Looking back, there are faults on both ends, but now I have to move forward with love. Should my phone ring or there be a knock on my door, my arms would be wide open! Unfortunately, there are times when an apology comes to late, so we have to love from a distance. But no matter who was right or who was wrong, it’s time to move forward. It’s time to stop focusing on what should of happened, and focus on what you can do in this moment in time, and that is to love big, with no regrets from this point on!